· The Pope’s Mass at Santa Marta ·
Anger and the verbal abuse of one of our brothers or sisters can kill. Pope Francis reminded the faithful of this at Mass early on Thursday, 13 June, in the Chapel of Domus Sanctae Marthae. He was commenting on the Gospel of the day’s liturgy (Mt 5:20-26) in which it says that anyone who is angry with his brother is liable for judgement.
Several Argentine diplomats had come to be with the Pope on the day that marks three months since his election. In the front row were personnel of the Argentine Embassies to the Holy See and to the Government of Italy; the country’s representatives at the Food and Agriculture Organization of the United Nations and at the Sovereign Military Order of the Knights of Malta; and staff of the Milan and Rome offices of the Argentine Consulate.
Referring to St John who said that anyone who expresses resentment or hatred to his brother or sister is in fact at heart a murderer, Pope Francis stressed the need to enter into the logic of perfecting — or reviewing — our conduct”. Of course, he said, addressing the faithful in Spanish, this calls to mind the subject “of discrediting our brother or sister, starting from our inner passions. In practice this the motive of insult”. Furthermore, the Pope pointed out with a touch of irony how widespread recourse to “marvellously imaginative” insults is in “the Latin tradition”, for “we invent one insult after another”.
“As long as the epithet is friendly let it go”, the Pope continued. However “the problem arises when there is another epithet” that veers towards the offensive. “We then go and qualify it with a series of definitions that are not exactly evangelical”. Verbal abuse, he said, “is a way of taking people down a peg”.
“There is no need to go to a psychiatrist to know that when people do someone else down it is because they themselves are unable to develop and, if they are to feel that they are someone who counts, need the other to be lower”. What Jesus said was quite the opposite the Holy Father continued: “do not speak badly of others, do not belittle them, do not discredit them; basically we are all walking on the same path”.
With regard to insulting, the Pope pointed out, Jesus is even more radical and “goes very much further”. For he says that already when “you begin to feel something negative in your heart” against one of your brethren and express it “with an insult, a curse or an outburst of anger, something is wrong. You must convert, you must change”.
Concerning this Pope Francis recalled the Apostle James who says that “ships are guided by a [very small] rudder and people are guided by their tongue”. So if someone “is unable to control his tongue, he or she is lost”. This is man’s weak point.
“Cain’s natural aggression towards his brother has been repeated in the course of history. It is not that we are wicked; we are weak and sinful”. This expalins why “it is far easier to solve a situation with an insult, with slander, with mud-slinging, rather than with kind words, as Jesus says”.
Lastly, the Pontiff asked the Lord for the grace for all “to be a little more careful with their tongue regarding what we say of others”. This is without a doubt “a small penance, but it yields good fruits”. It is true that it demands a sacrifice and effort, since it is far easier to enjoy “the fruit of a racy comment against another”. In the long run this “hunger is rewarding and does us good”. Hence our need to ask the Lord for the grace to “conform our life to this new law, which is the law of docility, the law of love, the law of peace”. We must start by pruning our language a little, by cutting back a bit our comments about others or the explosions that lead us to insulting them and flaring up in anger.
St. Peter’s Square
Feb. 28, 2020
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